Read this wonderful insight from an unknown philosopher..napakaganda! Isapuso natin at tignan kung ano ang pupuede magawa nito sa buhay natin:
When we have trouble with the people in our life, it is almost always because we dont want to give them something. The giving does not necessarily mean material things. It means we dont want to give them a genuine acknowledgment of their being, their position, their understanding. We hold back, because we tell ourselves that they dont deserve it, or that we will lose something by acknowledging them for something, or we insist on seeing the shallowest part of their character, refusing to see the darkness, ignorance, confusion or suffering that lies behind it. In short, we judge, and when we cannot give, we are the ones who suffer the most from this psychic blockage. In giving, we can lose nothing, except the limitations of our personal sense of self.